On the Daily Grind: Finding Time to Socialize

January 13, 2017

One of the greatest gifts I we get with age is the array of different people we meet and the life-long friendships we develop during different times in our lives. Childhood, schools, jobs, hobbies, relationships… I love all my girlfriends, but as I go through each period of my life, I get wrapped up in the daily grind and finding time to socialize is tough. I am also an introvert, and so it’s easy for me to just stay in my own space! Of course I do go out, but I tend to prioritize big gatherings an not one-on-one girlfriend times! So we end up seeing each other every few months if we’re lucky, but usually every few years (years fly by so fast!!). I truly miss their presence in my life, though. I miss their personalities and all their different refreshing points of view! So good for my soul.

Every year, as December 31st comes and goes, I always promise myself to get back in touch with my girlfriends and keep the relationship constant, but fail. This year, I finally decided to actually make it happen!! So in my planner, overpacked with work projects and kids activities, I looked for available times for lunch breaks and coffee dates. And no matter how much I thought my planner was packed, I found times we could absolutely meet! So I made calls and sent out texts, wrote in our dates, and made them recurring ones!

Stop one, breakfast at Blackmarket Bakery with my super talented friend Adrianna Kinal (you should check her beautiful art here, and follow her on Instagram here!). It is amazing how after not seeing each other for months, we were able to just pick up where we left off!

How often do you see your girlfriends? Is finding time to socialize challenging for you? What do you do to make sure you see them often? Would so love to hear from you, leave your comments below!

♡ Zuma A.

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Sweet Vanilla Candle, Easy Happy Living Hacks

January 11, 2017

A few years back, when Laura Mercier came out with her Vanille soufflé body cream collection, I fell in love with the vanilla scent. There is something so calming and therapeutic about it! Vanilla invokes a feel-good feeling, and given that I am an absolute stress ball and need all the help I can get, vanilla everything has become a fixture in my home.

A few weeks back, while holiday shopping, I found this absolutely delicious Boulangerie Sweet Vanilla candle from Anthropologie. I looved it! I even got worried because I often develop a fragrance sensitivity to some candle scents and didn’t want to be forced to give it away. Luckily I didn’t have to! The candle’s warm and fuzzy vanilla cupcake scent gives me a feeling of comfort and truly promotes happy vibes. No matter, whether I work or read a book, I often light this candle, especially on the cold and gloomy winter days.

Do you often light candles at home? Which scent is your favorite, and how does it make you feel? Let me know in the comments below!

♡ Zuma A.

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Fashion, Life

Monday Blues, Getting Back To Work After Holidays

January 9, 2017

Happy back-to-work Monday, loves! I always think that getting back to work after a vacation is tough, but not as tough as getting back to work after holidays. I think that the difference is that before heading out of the office for a vacation, I always try to finish as much work as I possibly can and maybe even organize what I need to do after I get back. When holidays come, however, I somehow slow down and procrastinate leaving work to another day, and then, when that Monday after the holidays come, I get slapped with piles of files before I get a chance to regain my usual workday pace. I experienced some of it last Thursday morning; I was working from home anticipating a slow day when I got pounded with phone calls and emails, all asking me to do something different, leaving me hyperventilating for a moment. To avoid any more experiences like this, I made a few preparations, especially considering I had to fly to San Francisco first thing this morning.

1. Come into the office with a plan of what you want to accomplish that day. Make sure to work in a reasonable transition time to adjust.

2. Start your regular work-week evening routine a few days before you head back to work. I have always done it for my kids to get them ready to go back to school after a vacation. Normalizing their morning and evening routine eases the transition tremendously. So why not do it for myself?

3. Don’t let holidays ending get you down. I always get so excited before holidays, anticipating fun times and and spending time with loved ones that I don’t normally get. It can feel lonelier and more mundane when all that is over. But hey, nothing stops me from having good times with family and friends next weekend!

4. Last, but not least, making an extra effort to dress up in light and bright colors and wearing the makeup I love makes me feel not only more put together, but also a bit more festive and excited about the day. So waking up that 15 minutes earlier is worth it to get that!

Do you ever feel Monday blues? Share your thoughts and tips on how you overcome them!!

♡ Zuma A.

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A French Take on Smartphone Addiction

January 6, 2017

Have you heard about this new French law that allows employees to turn off their work email after hours? So that means dinners at home can go uninterrupted and work-emailing can become a non-issue! But, seriously, no one would argue that making an effort to take a break from your phone or tablet on off hours is a bad idea. My day usually starts at 5 AM, and the first thing I do before I can barely open my eyes is I reach for my phone. I quickly wake up as soon as I start reading and responding to emails and messages (work and personal), checking Facebook, Instagram, and other social media. So by the time the sun is up, my head is filled with loads of information I can probably live without. And then I continue holding my phone in my hand for about  85% of my day, every day. I even opted for a smaller iPhone because an iPhone+ would be too bulky for me to hold for that many hours each day.

Now, as I write this post, I can only hope you have the same phone habits as I do, because if not, this sounds like an addiction. Honestly, even if we all have it, I really do think it’s addiction, just a widespread and socially acceptable one. So I want to try and take some time and declutter my mind. Maybe an email free weekend to help and slow down the time? How do you all deal with this smartphone obsession? Do you have tips or ways that you take some time off from social media or emails? Leave your comments, would so love to hear from you!

♡ Zuma A.

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Fashion, Life

An Unexpected Clarity of Mind, Focusing on 2017

January 4, 2017

Happy Wednesday and happy New Year loves! Are you ready for 2017?!

The past month was so super busy, overpacked with work, travels, gift hunting, and holiday parties, that it passed in a flash. I was left longing for a repeat, just minus work. But the new year has rolled in, and it’s time to move forward and reevaluate what I want my life be like in 2017. I actually enjoy the concept of self-improvement. I love reading self-improvement books and go through these re-evaluations every so often. You would think I’d be a perfect human by now, but somehow, I am really not hehe. I often find myself dealing with the same issues over and over again. As much as I’ve been preaching the importance of living a balanced life, for example, I have fallen off the ‘balance’ wagon too many times and found myself wasting precious time on things that are not important.  

Things came into focus for me unexpectedly. I was in San Diego for work, tired from a long day in court. I still had to make a stop at Nordstrom on the way home to exchange a pair of earrings. There I found these Gorjana ‘power stone’ bracelets. The bracelets are so lovely, simple, and delicate, each made with semi-pressious stones that promote their own special meaning: love, strength, balance, clarity, focus… Focus on balance, focus on simplicity, focus on what’s important, one thing at a time. What perfect reminders!

Focus, Balance, and Clarity were my three picks. What would be yours? Did you set lifestyle changing goals or resolutions for 2017? What are they? Have you tried them before? How do you plan on staying on track to the end? Can wait to hear from you, make sure to comment below. 

Happy New Year!! 

♡ Zuma A.

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Personalized Gifts for Kids Get Personal, Made With Love

December 9, 2016

This is it, loves, we are two weeks away from Christmas! My tree is up and almost all gifts are wrapped! If you are still looking for gift ideas, I hope that this gift guide will make your hunt a little easier. I’ve been wanting to share these two children’s personalized books which I think wonderful personalized gifts! Some of you may know that John and I wrote and published these books a few years back. I am so proud of our work and so excited at the thought that thousands of kids have read these books that we worked so hard on. It’s such a special feeling! You can read the reviews on here.

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Best for ages 0-3, the books’ construction allows you to easily insert photos of your family, friends, and child, so everyone becomes part of the story. The first book, Look Who Is Coming, was designed to introduce our entire family to Alex in the context of a story getting together to celebrate. Along the way, he identifies different colors and discovers and counts cute creatures 1-5. I Can Fly Super Duper High is for ages 2-5, a story about a boy or a girl who flies an airplane to save the day from gloomy clouds. Each page is constructed to allow one photo and the child is the main hero of the story.

dsc02478 dsc02484 dsc02489If you already have the books, please leave your thoughts in comments below! Would so love to hear from you!! And if are looking for gifts for a bit older kids, check out this books and games gift guide.

♡ Zuma A.

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Thank you Lenley Makela Slepicka for letting me borrow these adorable models!!

Illustrated and photographed by Lenley Makela Slepicka.


From Work Chic to Casual Fun: Ann Taylor Camel Coat

December 7, 2016

Usually, when I hear ‘winter’, I think of cozy sweaters and warm throws, but this year I absolutely fell in love with coats. There are so many options to look super cute or super chic (depending on how you feel!). And this year, I couldn’t resist Ann Taylor’s Black Friday sale and got myself not one but two coats, in camel and red (stay tuned for the pics of the red coat!). As for camel coats, I’ve always admired their effortless and chic style, but never owned one! But since camel coats are this season’s must have this year, there are many beautiful styles available in stores.

I used to think that’s a camel coat is perfect for just a timeless workday look. You can never go wrong when you pair it with an LBD, nude pumps, and a string of pearls. So chic! Recently, though, being a jeans and sweater girl at heart, I love wearing this coat with my casual looks. It is perfect to run errands in, whether it is a quick run to the post office or the market. I’ve always loved the pairing of different styles in a look. A polished and classy coat uplifts the casual no-hem jeans and creates a cool and classy vibe. 

Do you own a camel coat? What is your favorite coat color and style? Comment down below, would love to hear from you!

♡ Zuma A.

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Office Look for Holiday Season, Winter Whites and Gold Metallics

December 5, 2016

Happy Monday darlings! We are only three weeks away from Christmas! Are you ready? It took me a little while to get into Holiday spirit this year, and playing Christmas tunes and setting up a social calendar was so uplifting to my spirits. I am all in now! I am looking forward to martinis and the Victoria’s Secret fashion show tonight, a Nordstrom event with a girlfriend on Thursday, and then a game night with family on Friday to kick off the weekend. My outfits too started getting into holiday spirit, winter whites and gold metallics are my Monday picks. Nothing brings out any woman’s complexion more than winter whites. So refreshing, so festive and chic!

I’ve owned this Ann Taylor jacket, skirt, and Stuart Weitzmen suede boots for many years already. Classic pieces are always such a great investment! And this new Anthropologie metallic top and Rebecca Minkoff bag (obsessed!) are my new classic-with-a-twist pieces. Brown suede always feels and looks sophisticated and cozy during fall and winter months. The bag’s golden studs and buckle give the 70s vibe and add an edge to the look. And I love how this Anthro gold top feels on my skin, soft and silky. It adds such femininity to the look if paired with soft colors, but can also look edgy if paired with black faux leather leggings and casual if paired with jeans.

What are you all wearing to the office these days? Comment down below, would love to hear from you!

♡ Zuma A.

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Beauty Gifts and Value Sets For the Holidays

November 30, 2016

There are so many reasons why women love beauty. To me, besides the fact that beauty products brighten my completion and slow down aging, they just feel good. With all the things I do for others during a days, the few minutes I spend in front of the mirror each morning and night are all about me feeling good and pampered. And every year, as the holidays approach, I make a trip to Sephora and get a few gift sets which I give to my girlfriends, party hostesses, co-workers, and Alex’s teachers.

Now, I am lucky that I have a long list of amazing women I want to get gifts for, but I have to stay within a budget. I often break the gift or value sets down into several gifts which can easily be stacked together and range from $5 to $100! This is also a creative way to make the gifts more personalized; I actually have fun mixing and matching the sets! Click through the photo gallery below for my favorite beauty gift and value sets!

♡ Zuma A.

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My Must Have Apps For the Holidays

November 21, 2016

Happy Monday loves! I cannot believe Thanksgiving is this week. I feel like I skipped a few weeks of the pre-holiday excitement. Life can get busy this time of the year. Last weekend, though, I took a break to go roller-skating with family, which finally turned it around for me. Happy endorphins and family time was what I needed! This week I hope to keep that positive attitude and plan working on my Christmas list and gift ideas. I found that there are quite a few apps for the holidays that can help me organize my holiday plans and gifts while keeping a happy and healthy state of mind. Two of my favorites are Santa’s Bag and Breathing app. 

1. Santa’s Bag – Christmas Gift List. I consider myself very lucky that I have a long list of people I want to get gifts for: family, friends, teachers, coworkers! But staying within a budget is tough, especially since buying ‘one for her one for me’ is seriously tempting. The Santa’s Bag app is perfectly organized and allows me to sort things by stores or recipients, just the way I like it! But the best part is that it lists how much money I spent on each item and adds it up for me. A great reality check, yikes!

2. Breathe App (for iOS) Stop Breathe & Think (for Android). Okay, don’t laugh. Even though I have always known how beneficial and calming breathing exercise can be, I always dismissed this app as silly… until I got an Apple Watch for my birthday from my awesome men. This app specifically would annoy me at first, but once I gave it a try, I loved it. I mean, being an overworked stress ball like me, this app is golden especially during such hectic holiday season. 

Do you use any apps to help you get through the holidays? Please share! 

♡ Zuma A.

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Beyond the Everyday Outfit Formula: Denim, Quilt, and Fringe

November 17, 2016

I often find myself reaching for the same pieces in my closet over and over  again. For years, these items have proven to be reliable and comfortable, and pair together perfectly (black dresses, grey sweaters, denim skinnies…).  But sometimes I stand in front of my wardrobe and feel that I am tired of the everyday outfit routine day in and day out, and crave to break free. When this happens, I look for colors, styles, and textures that bring up feelings of comfort, coziness, or old school attitude (thinking 70s, 80s, or 90s). I can never ignore the power of a good outfit.

Now during fall, I long for warmth and softness. And for today’s outfit I wanted to incorporate earthy tones to bring a sense of calmness and balance (I am absolutely obsessed with browns and blues this season). The soft suede and quilted jacket will keep me warm and cozy. And nothing adds a touch of a girl-boss attitude like long earrings and free spirited fringe.

♡ Zuma A.

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J.Crew tissue turtleneck

Zara A-line skirt (similar by J.Crew, now on sale)

J.Crew quilted vest

Rebecca Minkoff fringe bag

Stuart Weitzman boots

Chanel aviators, old (love these Kate Spade aviators)

Michelle ‘Deco’ Diamond Dial Two-Tone Watch